I carry a KAHR PM45 most of the time, in Carhartt carpenters. It’s just not that bad. Most people consider the J-Frame a pocket pistol and it larger than most, if not all on the OP’s list.
Then again maybe carhartts are the new hammer pants, as “skinny jeans” seem to be the trend now days so that could explain why you guys think pistols literally designed for pocket carry are to big for pocket carry.