The Lyman manual shows a max of 18.0gr Unique under a Sierra 400gr. It's only showing 1300fps out of a 10" test barrel. So I really don't think there's anything wrong with your load. The .500S&W runs at 60,000psi and is proofed ta 86,500psi. So I would completely dismiss the idea that this load is too much for the gun.
I am also of the Linebaugh school of thought that so-called pressure signs are not applicable to straightwall revolver cartridges. The idea that sticky extraction or flattened primers is a The Lyman manual shows a max of 18.0gr Unique under a Sierra 400gr. It's only showing 1300fps out of a 10" test barrel. So I really don't think there's anything wrong with your load. The .500S&W runs at 60,000psi and is proofed ta 86,500psi. So I would completely dismiss the idea that this load is too much for the gun.
I am also of the Linebaugh school of thought that so-called pressure signs are not applicable to straightwall revolver cartridges. The idea that sticky extraction or flattened primers is a sign of over-pressure is a rifle concept. Revolvers have been tested to destruction and showed no "pressure signs" right up until they blew. Follow and trust your data, verify with a chronograph. Forget pressure signs.
The .500S&W runs at 60,000psi and is proofed at 86,500psi. So I would completely dismiss the idea that this load is too much for the gun.
Unique is not commonly used in this cartridge but is only the wrong powder if it's not giving you the velocity you want.