Re: Fred Phelps
1. Who someone chooses to have sex with isn't my, yours, or the governement's problem, as long as the sex is consesual. I'm not gay, because men don't turn me on. But if they do, and your partner as well, where is the harm to me or mine?
2. Subjecting the family of a dead <whoever> to unneeded pain and suffering to make a political point is simply disgusting. Phelps and his ilk deserve whatever reprisals come thier way. If ignoring these people until they shut up and go away works, then that's what should be done. But if someone decides to kick Fred Phelp's slimeball a$$, you'ld be hard-pressed to find a jury to convict them. I sure wouldn't.
Re: The funerals of Coretta King / Paul Wellstone / Ronald Regan
These were politcal people. Regardless of your opinion of thier opinions, their ilves were lived in the furtherance of those opinions. To celebrate their lives without celebrating their opinions would be, at best, shallow and meek. It's only those who violently disagree with the policies and values they lived for who can be offended at an expression of support for those values at their memorials. I am no fan of Ronald Reagan. But nothing said at his funeral struck me as inappropriate. His ideas were out there for everyone to see, and he spent his life pushing them. To espouse those ideas at his funeral is to memorialize that which he lived for. No higher tribute could be paid, IMHO. It also matters that, in all of these cases, the family of the deceased were supporting the people who made political speeches on the side of the dead's ideals. The grieving weren't offended, why should anyone else be?
--Shannon