OilyPablo
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Saving to buy a new car with cash has put a severe dent in my post tragic boating accident acquisition plan.
Best answer so far is to bring wife. Enough said.
Best answer so far is to bring wife. Enough said.
That doesn't always work. If I took my wife with me, SHE would not let me leave the gun shop without making a purchase. There have been several times when I have returned from local shops without buying a particular gun that I saw there, she has commanded me to go back and not return home without a new gun. Who am I to argue?Best answer so far is to bring wife.
"How do you walk out of a gun shop empty-handed?"
I don't buy really expensive guns, save for a Colt Python. I also keep the balance in my head,and either resell something or make up working extra. I have bought a few I thought were keepers but really could live without. Ended up selling them to cut the losses. I am committed to keeping a 5 gun safe and a truck box, no more guns than can fit in. Like most compulsive shoppers I wasn't born with a silver spoon, but now need self control not to scatter what I have worked hard to gain
The classic way is to become an aficionado/expert, and really picky.
Avoid going to gun shops, gun shows,.......and stop thinking about guns.How do you walk out of a gun shop empty-handed?
If the answer is "easy", please don't bother, it will make me sad.
If, on the contrary, you suffer from pangs, mental cramps, gottahavit's... You are not alone. Please share your creative ways of self restraint.
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Great Post!!! +1,000,000!!!!!I dedicate my time and limited budget to developing shooting proficiency. Range time, practices, ammo, components, training, and match fees.
It really doesn't matter how many guns you have. You've only got a few hands, and only so many disciplines you really can focus on at once.
If you've got the disposable income to be purchasing new guns frequently, then you really should be a MASTERFUL shooter, because that disposable income will buy a tons of ammo, the best training in the world, and cover the costs for traveling to and participating in shooting events/venues of all kinds. There's really no excuse for acquiring new hardware if your own skills don't already exceed the capabilities of the hardware you currently own!
I find that most of the guns I own collect a lot of dust. And a precious few collect a lot of honest wear. I sure don't need any more guns that would fill duplicate roles of guns I already own, and very rarely buy any.
So, in the end, it is pretty easy not to buy new guns, because I'd feel like a huge dork buying something that didn't make me a better SHOOTER. (We probably should remember that SHOOTING is the point...not owning objects.) And 99.5% of the time a new gun isn't what's needed to improve your shooting.
We spend a lot of money and time selecting, fawning over, buying, and stashing away shiny new wheels and tires, when the engine is what needs work...
We're runners with a closet full of shoes, but who only manage to wheeze and gasp our way through a short jog around the block once every month or two.Gotta shake my head
This approach has been working for me for the last five years or so. If I am looking to acquire something new, I grab a pencil and paper. Then I sit down and list my handguns using the following logic:If there is a gun you "must have", decide which gun you have to sell to get it. If you can't think of one you want to sell to get it then you don't want it as much as you thought you did.
The man evidently spoke the same words to Sheryl Crow before she sang them.This approach has been working for me for the last five years or so. If I am looking to acquire something new, I grab a pencil and paper. Then I sit down and list my handguns using the following logic:
If I could keep only one, which one would it be? That usually ends up being the one I have been carrying most over the last 6 months.
Then I do the same thing again. If I could keep one more, which one would it be?
And again. Fortunately, my total is not large, so this is not a protracted process. (I also save these lists for amusement/comparison purposes.)
When I'm done, either the one at the bottom of the list goes up for sale...or else I decide that I really don't want that new one as much as I thought.
My total number has gone down over the years, because occasionally I have to sell two to afford the one I want.
My buying and selling has gone way down. I think I bought one and sold one last year, and nothing so far this year. Oops, check that...I sold one. I know what the replacement will be, but finding one has so far proven a challenge.
These days, the turnover is down, the average value is up, and the satisfaction/enjoyment is way up.
A wise man told me many years ago, "The secret to happiness is not having what you want, but wanting what you have." It took me 30 years or so to fully internalize that, and I am not immune to momentary desire. But reason generally prevails.
Please share your creative ways of self restraint.