This may help. In NC, we have an active hunting forum, the "North Carolina Hunting and Fishing Forum".
http://www.nchuntandfish.com/forums/forumdisplay.php?19-Muzzleloading/
The thread I picked out for you is:
http://www.nchuntandfish.com/forums/showthread.php?106916-new-to-muzzleloading/
I believe the thread deals with a .50 caliber, but the brands mentioned have .45 caliber bullets in their lines.
If you want to get great advice, register on the forum, tell them, "Buck sent me" and ask about recommended .45 caliber bullets for your identified rifle.
Another good choice in the .45 caliber are the T/C solid lead slugs, AKA "Maxi-Ball" & "Maxi-Hunter". Extremely accurate with 90grns Goex 3F and 100grns Goex 2F...devastating on deer to 70 yds..
I've always told hunters, "you can kill a deer with a Mack truck or you can kill a deer with a pickup truck. One just kill them harder than the other one, but they both kill the deer."
If its any consolation, one of my customers, Gordon Smith, CSM 7th SFG(A), RET, kills deer every year with his TVM Southern Mountain flintlock longrifle I sold him in 1998. His .45 caliber round ball, weighing about 130 grains, is powered by 70 grains of GOEX 3FG powder, and drops deer out to 75 yards.
"Remember, accuracy (concentration) is 99% the 'nut' behind the trigger".