coylh
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She sounds content with the way she's living her life.
are some people just victims no matter what?
no you are not a coward. if the situation was that your GF asked you to intervene and you didnt because the other guys were scary, thats cowardice.Am I coward if I let things go on as they are, and she gets assaulted or threatened or whatever and all I can say is "Well, you could've put a stop to this long ago but chose not to..."??
In nature that is true. The stupid, the weak, those without the natural instinct to survive die and more often than not they don't breed.Everybody is born with the natural instinct of self preservation...
Perhaps but not likely. Some people are just plain incapable of perceiving a threat. Whether it's because the trait has been bred out or civilized out is really irrelevant. Some folks just need protecting. Some folk just Gump their way thru life in condition white.if she is 'allowing unwanted attention' then perhaps the attention is not unwanted.
anthillsinrome said:she says that she is simply unable to be a bitch and give them the hint that she's taken, and doesn't want to be emailed and called and pestered for dates and attention.
Now half of me says I should rush to her defense, find whatever guy is currently hounding her (right now it's some guy in her Bio class), and tell him that I'm going to be wiping the floor with his spleen if he doesn't back off. But the other half wonders why I should fight her fight, why I should risk myself, for this. She's an adult and can make the conscious choice of whether to allow herself to be a victim again...