Grew up with BB guns and playing Army a lot, yet somehow I was trapped into the belief that real guns were bad and that it would be good to get them away from the common folk for their own good. Graduating from college and coming of adult age during the Clinton administration, I believed all of the stuff that were fed about assault weapons, street sweepers, etc, etc.
Then about the time I was 30 I just started feeling like something wasn't right. Sort of like in the Matrix, how what you see saw going on around you didn't seem to jive with what you were being told was the truth.
I realized that my father in law had a lot of guns around the house and, surprise, no one had died as a result of them. His children were maniacs taking guns to school and shooting kids. I noticed that I liked living in VA a lot more than MD....less crime yet more guns. I noticed that the kids I taught in VA who went hunting with their dads had a healthier respect for their parents and nature than the non-hunters.
When I came back to MD at the age of 32, I found that I had entered the twilight zone. The criminals were the poor misfortunates who society had mistreated. The politicians know who the criminals are and where they ply their trade, yet in the name of political gain refuse to attack those criminals. My parents, who have lived in the same house for 31 years, have a drug dealer on one side of them and a prostitute and murderer on the other side of them, yet the police won't even investigate. (The murderer was eventually arrested and convicted purely on account of his own drunken mouth).
So who is to protect them the next time that someone breaks into the shed and being emboldened decides to take a chance at entering the house? My parents are part of the herd that believe guns are bad.....so they just sit there and take it.
The capstone event for me, much like many other Americans, was 911. Even then it took a year for me to finally get it through my thick head that I had to be responsible for my own safety in my home. After weeks of research here and on other forums, I felt like I had the information that I needed to start my search for my first gun.
I went to a bunch of bozo gun shops (don't ask, I won't tell
) in the Baltimore area before ending up at one where the clerk talked to me like an adult without being patronizing. I walked out with a Taurus .38 special the day before my 35th birthday.
Nearly a year later, I have 5 handguns (OK, really 4.5 since the Navy 1851 is a complete mystery to me). My wife shoots with me regularly as does my brother. Heck, my wife got expert on her Navy shooting quals.....