I have a S&W 638 Bodyguard J-frame, and a Kel-Tec P3AT. I am thinking about picking up a Kahr PM9. This will be a dedicated pocket pistol. How does the PM9's felt recoil compare to the J Frame and Kel-Tec. (Wife and son hate the Kel-Tec due to recoil) There is no place local for me to rent to try, and I don't know anyone that owns one. I have plenty of other weapon options, so please stick to the above three in your answer. Thanks in advance!