This is a question for the happily-married guys out there; and perhaps even the unhappily married and/or divorced guys can offer some insight as well.
Being single/ never married, I wouldn't mind having someone to share the remainder of my life with, and perhaps raising a munchkin or two. Anyhow, 36 yrs old, and there's a good reason why I've never taken the plunge before - I have very little to NOTHING in common with (seemingly) 99.9% of the chicks I meet. So I've had it in my head for the last 5 years or so that it's going to be all or nothing for me, meaning that I'm determined to either find a woman who shares a strong interest in 1 or more of my major hobbies, which includes camping/hunting/fishing (& shooting/owning guns), or stay forever a bachelor, cuz I figure that hey, what's better than a woman who'll go hunting with you and keep ya warm in the tent/camper? But several guys I've run this idea across say, nah, I don't want a woman who is interested in hunting. Accepting yes, but a hunter/outdoorsman herself, no, because I'll need my personal time away, and if she always wants to go, I'll not be able to decompress. But I'm not buying this. I think if you have a good intimate relationship, you'll enjoy your time together, and the more things you have in common, the better. So which is it? Thanks. I'm a complete dunce about relationships, but I'm sick of dating women who care zero about any of my hobbies/interests - I sure as heck don't care about typical chick stuff (social events/partying, traveling, gambling, decorating, clothes/shoes, makeup & hair stuff, etc.).
Being single/ never married, I wouldn't mind having someone to share the remainder of my life with, and perhaps raising a munchkin or two. Anyhow, 36 yrs old, and there's a good reason why I've never taken the plunge before - I have very little to NOTHING in common with (seemingly) 99.9% of the chicks I meet. So I've had it in my head for the last 5 years or so that it's going to be all or nothing for me, meaning that I'm determined to either find a woman who shares a strong interest in 1 or more of my major hobbies, which includes camping/hunting/fishing (& shooting/owning guns), or stay forever a bachelor, cuz I figure that hey, what's better than a woman who'll go hunting with you and keep ya warm in the tent/camper? But several guys I've run this idea across say, nah, I don't want a woman who is interested in hunting. Accepting yes, but a hunter/outdoorsman herself, no, because I'll need my personal time away, and if she always wants to go, I'll not be able to decompress. But I'm not buying this. I think if you have a good intimate relationship, you'll enjoy your time together, and the more things you have in common, the better. So which is it? Thanks. I'm a complete dunce about relationships, but I'm sick of dating women who care zero about any of my hobbies/interests - I sure as heck don't care about typical chick stuff (social events/partying, traveling, gambling, decorating, clothes/shoes, makeup & hair stuff, etc.).