Navy joe,
Everyone is familiar with something(s).
If one handles or works with something enough, they develop a feel , touch ,or taste if you will. Their senses are tuned for whatever it is.
Wood, fabric, and foods for example.
Ceramic as used in the old heaters work well too, the ones I am thinking of are the orange/brown color, much like a India stone.
Folks forget, folks have sharpened knives and other edged tools, for a long long time, and while advances have been made, some things are just the same old thing.
I just remember as a kid, folks would use emery paper to do edges. It might be a wood worker, and after doing the planer blade on a Stone, put that stone on a hard surface, even a glass window pane, and finish out with finer grits, to polish that edge.
It did not take much effort to curl wood with that sharpened edge.
I still remember how folks spoke while emery paper was nice, it was not ideal to take camping, or using on the back part of the property.
Also, "sharp" meant what "sharp" for a task.
That Norton India stone, combo coarse /fine will handle all one really needs.
Just less and less pressure as one get near finishing the edge is "akin" to using a finer grit stone.
Mentors showed me a hi-polished edge on a pocket knife, I mean shiny!
I just knew that knife was going to slice a tomato super easy and fast...It did not!
"Skin is elastic (stretches and gives) and one has to get past that, to cut the tomato."
I am standing on a kitchen chair to see this lesson mind you.
So he takes Norton India stone, small one, and I am thinking "oh no, he is going to mess up that shiny edge , and goof up big time!".
He used a few light strokes, and the edge was not shiny, under a magnifying glass I could even better...*frump* I liked how shiny that edge was against the patina...
That knife just zipped through that tomato so easy! I had my hand on his, and we were not using hardly any pressure.
Rope was another thing I was shown that day...