Kimbernut,
Because brass has greater "springiness" than brass, adjusting the crimp will not do anything to increase neck tension on thin-walled brass. It just swages the bullet to a smaller diameter within the case. The only solution is to use an undersize sizing die on this brass to approximate the sizing that takes place in thicker-walled brass. This, of course, would require sorting if one wanted similar neck tension in the two case types without excessively working thick case walls with the expander. I'm not sure that excessive work-hardening would be really much of a problem with low-pressure handgun rounds.
My current standard sizing dies sufficiently size all cases such that there isn't a set-back problem. In my experience, the "premium" dies sets, such as Hornady or Redding, tend to hold to the tighter end of allowable tolerance and thus, in general, are more likely to size smaller than other dies. YMMV.