chris in va said:
Believe me, I'd *much* rather open carry freely such as in AZ than have to tuck this thing under a jacket or shirt. But as I see it, open carry is more for the times when your shirt rides up and exposes your handle than it is to make everyone's eyes pop out and start fidgeting.
As someone who OCs every day, I can assure you that open carry is a great way to exercise your rights without having to submit to being licensed to do so. For me it is the norm.
I think what you might find most surprising is what a "normal" thing it can be. I've carried in malls, in movie theaters, I carry to the bank; I carry literally everywhere I go (unless I plan to drink alcohol
). I even wore my gun while having a cavity filled a couple weeks back. People don't stare and fidget; if I get any reaction at all it's more along the lines of employees going out of their way to be helpful and people being extremely polite to me (of course I am always extremely friendly & polite myself when I am OCing). I've had many people ask me about my license--of course I have none--or the law in Virginia, and when I take the time to explain the way things are I invariably get a positive reaction. I have also had people approach to to tell me that they like my 1911, or that they support OC, or even just say "cool gun!" I've had numerous such positive encounters.
In fact, just the other day I went into a bar (nightclub?) where I had "left" my debit card two nights before, and since it was early on a Monday evening and the place was mostly empty I didn't bother to leave my gun in the car. As I stood at the bar waiting for the bartender to locate my forgotten card, a young lady approached me. I think our conversation went something like this:
"Hey, excuse me...."
"Yes?"
"Is that a gun?"
"....."
"That is so awesome. Can I see it?"
"I'm sorry miss, but I'm afraid I can't let you handle it. At least, not in public. You can look all you want, though."
"Oh, OK. Well, I just wanted to say how cool that is that you have a gun! Do you carry it everywhere?"
At which point I explained that, while I certainly hadn't carried that Saturday night when I left my card (due to the crowd and minor inebriation on my part), under normal circumstances I do carry everywhere--the biggest exceptions being musical performances and crowded bars, or if I plan to be drinking. As it happened, I was on my way to meet a lady friend of my own, so I didn't stay to continue the conversation once the bartender located my card and I had paid up.
But I think the story serves to illustrate that OC is not automatically going to generate negative attention, even in a place that serves alcohol. And as cheesy as the conversation may have been, in my own defense I can say I wasn't the one to initiate it.
Truth be told, I never bring up the fact that I'm carrying; others bring it up to make positive comments of their own volition. If anything, when I first started carrying, and I was still a bit nervous about what kind of reactions I would get, I was actually really encouraged by my fellow citizens, mostly by complete strangers. Suffice it to say that OCing reinforces my convictions on a daily basis.
With all that said, if you do OC to a place that serves alcohol (I would assume you would do so for the food), it's probably a good idea to sit at a table.
Oh, and I might as well say something about the "negative" reactions I've received. There have been two occasions (maybe three) where I've received a lingering "evil eye" (women each time). I, of course, merely smile and tip my hat.