Was I "discriminated" against??

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GrizzlyGraves

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I got a haircut today. Unfortunately, my barber was closed with it being Sunday and all so I had to settle for "Great Clips" or whatever bland generic chain store it is. :banghead:

I get this guy who looks right out of flock of seagulls or something with partially bleached hair etc. :scrutiny: Not my place to pass judgment so I don't say anything. :uhoh:

Maybe it was the book I was reading (Patriots) or my mossy oak/olive drab NRA hat or my tan work uniform but he was the most unfriendly hair cut dude that I've ever encountered.

After the standard questions about how I want it cut, he asked me what I do for a living. I told him (clean rental cars) and he asked how I like it to which I responded that "it pays the bills." He remarks, under his breath in a mocking tone, "it pays the bills. well its better than nothing" as if I somehow offended him.

Two minutes later and his sub-par job is done and he rings me up. Just after he rang up the sale I remembered the student discount. Normally this shop asks all college-agers if they are students (college town). I ask for the discount and, thankfully, he re-rang me but only after I showed him my student ID.

Just seemed like a strange way to deal with a paying customer. I guess my down-to-earth personality conflicted with his flamboyant feminized ideals. :rolleyes:

I wanted to be the better man so I tipped him anyway. It's a decent haircut.
 
Who knows?

Sounds like the two of you were using the same words and speaking a different language.

You got a good hair cut and for the right price? Sounds okay so far.

You implied you didn't like this guy's looks to start with. It is possible he read that in the look on your face? Was he thinking, "This guys doesn't like my looks and he cleans cars for a living?"

My only point is this: If one looks for reasons to be offended, or 'discrimination' or whatever, one can always find it. Ease up. Life's too short to carry that sort of burden.
 
Perhaps he was just having a bad day. No need to look for the antigun monster hiding under every bed.
 
Don't get me wrong, I'm not looking for something to be offended by. I guess it didn't really come across well. I apologize. Must have been one of those "you had to be there" things.

Maybe his poor salesmanship irked me. Oh well, that's why I don't go there if I can avoid it. I prefer the local barber shop where I can get a great haircut and have some intelligent conversations without rap blaring in my ear.

Like you said, got the haircut at the right price. :D
 
Well there are two here in Cheney, WA. I'm just outside of Spokane, WA where I assume there are more.

I like my barbershop because the owner has been a barber longer than I've been alive and he has passed the trade on to his daughters who also work in the shop.

You see that less and less these days and I like to support the mom 'n' pops as much as possible.
 
I had a worse experience right after CCW was adopted here in New Mexico. I went in to get a hair cut where I usually go. I was packing, it was winter so my holstered weapon, a 1911 was under my jacket in a Blackhawk holster. I went up to the hairdressers chair and she waas being very polite, even flirty. She knew I came in all the time to get cuts and was a good tipper. I guess since my regular girl wasn;t there she figgured if she did as well she too would be tipped well too. She was a goth type, very good looking, but tatooed up and had the weird goth hair which frankly looked good on her very pretty face and frame.

I removed my jacket and she continued to be flirty and very cordial until she saw my gun. LIGHT SWITCH! First question in a very terse tone, are you a cop or something? No I answered, well, what are you? I was taken aback but knew in a second what the deal was. I answered I am a weapons instructor, hopeing she would think it was strictly for LEO's and stop the questioning. Next question, well why do you carry THAT GUN? I said that it wasn't a question that I felt she should ask of a customer and she got hot.

She quietly did her job in a very quick and abrupt way making me feel that I was being shafted with a non standard haircut. She got near the end and was obviously very frustrated and asked if I was legaally allowed to be carring the gun I said I was and asked if she wanted to see my CCW license and she almost yelled conceiled carry license! They allow people top carry guns here in New Mexico and issue a LICENSE for it!?

Whren I said yes she made some sort of comment about moving back to California where it was "still safe to walk the streets of LA" and I had to laugh!

I gave up on the conversation and paid her for the haircut which kinda made me look a little like a punk rocker, but in a good way so I paid, gave her a "standard" tip and left.

When I went in again the next month for another haircut, she wans't there but the normal girl who cuts my hair upon seeing me come in got a huge smile on her face and couldnt wait to tell me the sorded story of the Goth chiks re-creation of what happened. She had made it sound if she feared for her life while doing my haircut and when she reconted the fear to the others who were paying attention to her demeanor while I was there told my regular girl the goth chick was crazy and how nice I was about explaining to her about CCW and how they all actually felt a little safer when I was there because it is a place where robberies have taken place.

Goth babe was fired soon after her questionaire when another person with a CCW came in and she gave "her" yes a lady the third degree about the "big mean horrible GUN"
 
She quietly did her job in a very quick and abrupt way making me feel that I was being shafted with a non standard haircut

That's how I felt.

And this relates to guns how?

Like I said, I was wearing my NRA hat. Oh, and I put in down on the little table in front of the mirror. Not to be a jerk or anything. I obviously wasn't going to keep it on but I didn't want to hold it.
 
"AHH... A good hair cut is like a fine auto loader......mmmmmm just gives me the tingles." I go to what I like to call "the man spa." They have gun, hunting, and car magazines plus playboy. They put the great big vibrator on your shoulders that loosens teeth. They shave your neck with a straight razor. If you go later on friday you might get handed a 5 spot to run next door for a sixpack. Nice place. Oozes testosterone.
 
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