An increase in mass of the projectile tends to negate the effects of the third law. Launch a ping pong ball at 200 fps into the wisk of a broom. Then toss a one pound lead sinker into the same broom at 100 feet per second. According to the third law, the broom offers the same resistance, but the increased mass of the heavier projectile mitigates much of the resistance to retained velocity and flight path deflection. So yes any brush impact will effect the path of any bullet, but the end affect on the flight path deviation can be reduced via a heavier projectile in some cases.
If a lighter faster bullet is severely deflected 8 times out of ten and a heavier slower bullet is only severely deflected 6 times out of ten, it is not a myth. It might not be overwhelmingly better than a lighter faster bullet, but even a 1% improvement , as slight as that is, proves it is not a myth.