I bought a P11 in 96 when the guys as Sccy were working for Kel Tec. I carry it in a pocket and have since then. I have well over 11k rounds through it. Used to keep a pretty accurate round count, but don't have a shooting routine with it anymore. I shoot it well, it shoots 3.5" at 25 yards accurate and is totally reliable. At 14 ounces, it's not heavy in the pocket and with 11 rounds capacity it's like having a service gun in my pocket.
In all the years and rounds, a couple of years ago it broke the extractor. The extractor design has changed in the second gen guns, but KT sent me one post haste and it was up and running again in a week. I have no knowledge of Sccy's customer support, but based on the extractor, I can say KT's is first rate.
Now, if I were to consider another 9, I'd go with the slightly skinnier, slightly lighter PF9 and not a Ruger or especially a Glock.
The Glock's trigger is too light and too short for a pocket gun and it would be like carrying a cinder block in your pocket. No thanks on Glock. I have nothing against Rugers, but I don't own one with a Glock type trigger, striker fired. My autos are both older P guns and I own single action Blackhawks, a black powder ROA, and a 10/22. I'm not really interested in a doohickey on my trigger.
To me the heavy trigger is a safety feature.
My thoughts, too. I really like my DA revolvers for this reason, too. The Sccy has a DA trigger like the P11, but a SAFETY, which is weird, but I guess I could learn to live with it, like super glue it off.