My XD-9 Tutone to me is very smooth, couple hundred rounds at the range no problem, accuracy is not affected until I get tired of shooting. I think a major part recoil felt on the 9mm is how well it fits your hands and how you hold it. This one is my Range Piece, fun to shoot, extended range time = no problem, inexpensive WWB at Wallyworld 100 rounds = 12 bucks! No problem carring this one CCW on occaision
My Glock 27 .40 kicks harder and sharper than anything I've shot, it doesn't make my hands sore or anything but the sharper recoil takes it's toll. After 50- 70 rounds my shot groups widen and I get frustrated in that I find it hard to hold the front sight perfectly still, at that point I know it's time to quit shooting it until next time. This is my primary choice for CCW though as I'm an very accurate with it up to 50 rounds. I can use the adapter to run a full size 13 round clip which gives me almost a full size grip on the gun and use it this way when side holstering it with the Blackhawk CCQ Serpa holster/paddle. For tucking in a small truck compartment or deaper conseal in an ankle holster or IWB I use the factory 9 round short mag with a pearce +1 extension. It's really the perfect CCW for me, light on the side holster, easy to conseal, accurate and more than enough power. Very durable finish, very reliable.
Ruger GP100 .357 revolver Stainless 6" Barrel. My big boom. 100 rounds max at the range, has a good kick, different than a semi auto, but still pronounced. After 100 rounds the gun is filthy the heavier weight and kick will wear you out a bit but not too bad. Great home defense weapon, highly visible to anyone who should not be in my house, hopefully they see it, turn and run rather than feel it's wrath.
In the future I'll probably end up with a Beretta Tomcat 32 ACP as a backup and a .45 of some type to complete my all caliber mini collection.
For now the XD-9 is my favorite shooter.