Everyone is in a hurry going nowhere.
No common courtesy or respect for each other.
All about the "bottom line" and how fast , how many folks are serviced.
Cars, since they were brought up.
Dealers have always had floor plans and sales persons wanting to make commissions.
While not as many as there use to be, there are still a few places that will have a sales-person meet a customer at a home or business and even bring a vehicle for the potential buyers to test drive.
Buyer knows the salesperson is pressed for time on a lot, maybe shorthanded with vacations , or someone off sick.
Sales folks know folks buying have a life too. Maybe hurt from a car wreck, hence the reason needing a car, and it being darned painful and difficult to go to a lot.
Mom and I picked out a car many years ago on a Sunday , while out and about, blowing snow and the car lot owner we called, came 30+ miles to where mom lived, dropped the car off and said drive it a few days and mom did.
Owner did this, coming to town with his wife following him, for their Anniversary dinner with friends in mom's town.
Mom bought the car, dealer came to town and did the paper work in mom's kitchen. Then he left her a nice car to use as he insisted on cleaning up the one she was buying (weather with snow and all) and he was adamant about changing oil, and other maint stuff he had not gotten around to.
Mom bought a Olds [typical old lady gray we call it] and it was funny seeing my mom drive this one year old Caddy for a week this dealer left, until her care was brought back as the dealer insisted this car be when a customer took ownership - even a full tank of gas.
Gun Stores.
How many times have the Mom&Pop gun folks I know, stayed after hours, went to a home or business, even opened doors on a Sunday afternoon (back when stores were not open on Sunday) and let a family come in , handle guns, ask all sorts of questions and get a kid a new gun, one for dad, mom, maybe Grandpa, work on replacements for insurance claims....you name it.
Folks were "respectful" of another's time. If a sales person was busy, making a sale, "hey, I will check back later" and congratulate someone on a new gun.
It worked out - the next time, when that person was the one being waited on - others respected this and did not pressure buyer or sales person.
Maybe I am getting old or going through another "dimension" as my Mentors & Elders called them.
At a gunsmith's buddy's place, he hands me a rifle while he gets the customer's out of the safe.
I have no friggin' idea how this gun he handed me works, I just stood there with hands away from trigger and muzzle up.
"You just going to stand there? " He asked.
"Yep, I trust you this thing is not loaded, still I and you always check guns handed to us. I do not know what this is - much less how to check it" I replied.
We have know each other forever, he set down the customer's gun he had, and double checked the one I was holding, put it back in the safe.
He and I grew up in a time were it was often said :
If I ever get to where I think I know everything about something - take me out back and shoot me.
Meaning, one should always be learning, the only time one "arrives" is when they are born and when they die.
And we ain't too sure about the dying part...