I live in VA and we are allowed to do FTF sales. I will not do a FTF sale unless the buyer goes through a dealer for a transfer. I prefer the gun to be "out of my name" if the gun is ever used in a crime. If the buyer can't pony up $20 for a transfer fee, it usually means he can't legally own the firearm to begin with.
Trying to "feel" someone out over the phone, via email, or in person, is not a foolproof way to guard against some degenerate bent on conducting a criminal act. There are people out there that have a cool demanor but who have reasons unknown to you that they can't legally possess a firearm and are intent on using it for illegal purposes. I would rather not be a part of that scenario. I don't need LE hassling me (e.g. asking for a bill of sale to clear my name), and I don't need the victim's families hassling me with a lawsuit, if there was a case of serious injury or death resulting from the buyer using the firearm I sold him. In this day and age, people want to litigate for every little thing.
just another view to consider. I would not even sell to my friends or relatives without a dealer transfer. I have relatives that I thought were normal, only to find out one way or another they got themsevles into drugs, violent domestic disputes, etc.
How about foreign residents obtaining state driver's licenses? Here in the DC metro area, MD issues drivers licenses to illegal aliens!!! (now I heard they are reviewing this and making it harder for illegals to obtain a driver's license) Even foreign residents who are here legally on a tourist visa can get a MD driver's license!! How do I know? Because a relative of a friend of mine is living in VA, using his friend's MD address, is on a 6 month tourist visa, and got a MD driver's licence, good for several months. ***
My friend drove him to the MD DMV to take the road test and they issued him a DL the same day...sorry but I believe in only US citizens having the right to keep and bear arms.