I saw something like this at the range a while back. Guy was shooting a .44 DE, girl was shooting a G19 or 23.
(paraphrased)
"I wanna shoot that one."
"No, its got too much recoil, you wouldnt like it."
"So? I still wanna shoot it."
"Honey, I told you, it kicks too hard."
"You mean too hard for a woman?"
"Fine, I'm in the doghouse either way, you get one round to start."
Thankfully, it didnt hit her in the forehead, and thankfully, there wasn't anyone behind her. Hopefully they left in seperate cars.