I lived in a neighboring state (CT) when that crap started and decided to get out.
As was tradition at the time, most people living in that dying industrial state (CT) would buy a house they could afford and stay in it, forever.
It took me 4 years to work it all out, but I did get out, selling a house I had lived in for 17 years, and leaving all friends and family behind.
Living in places like NY now, is like the frog in a pot of cold water sitting on the stove, for gun owners.
Getting out should be your goal, make no excuses, no matter how long it takes...
jmo,
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As was tradition at the time, most people living in that dying industrial state (CT) would buy a house they could afford and stay in it, forever.
It took me 4 years to work it all out, but I did get out, selling a house I had lived in for 17 years, and leaving all friends and family behind.
Living in places like NY now, is like the frog in a pot of cold water sitting on the stove, for gun owners.
Getting out should be your goal, make no excuses, no matter how long it takes...
jmo,
.