Bullets need to fit the throat, which must be slightly over groove diameter, if not they will lead. There are more problems with too hard an alloy than too soft. If the bullet is undersized for the throats, or the bullet fits the throat but the groove diameter is larger, you will get gas cutting and leading from it. Throats must be around .001 over groove diameter, and bullets must fit the throat. A nice tight slip fit is best. Softer bullets will bump up (Within reason) and fill the throats, stopping gas cutting. Hard bullets will not bump up id undersized for the throats and you will get gas cutting. Undersized throats will keep the bullet under groove diameter and you will get gas cutting. You have to push a 12 BHN bullet pretty hard before it skids. A slower powder is more forgiving there than a fast powder which slaps it harder at the start.
Very little to do with the OPs question, but that's where the conversation went.