It would appear you need some assistance on terminal ballistics. Please, let me oblige, now that I have more time :
http://www.physicsclassroom.com/class/momentum/u4l1a.cfm
For bowling pins, you are looking at vector quantity -vs- a stationary object. In this case, the Pin.
If you need a good primer on how all of this math works, it can be found here :
http://staff.hartdistrict.org/glyle/tools/momentum_how_to/Momentum overview.pdf
Illustrates the fallacy of "knock down power" pretty quickly, when you consider the mass of a human in comparison to a bowling pin.
That "mushrooming" you are referring to, all it really does is enlarge the temporary wound cavity, and continue the permanent wound cavity throughout the target.
Neat study on dead human flesh vs bullets :
http://www.researchgate.net/publica...tics_temporary_cavity_effects_in_soft_tissues
( you will need to sign up for that one )
If you trust the FBI's take on the issue :
http://www.firearmstactical.com/pdf/fbi-hwfe.pdf ( run the PDF )
Hornadys take on the issue :
http://www.hornady.com/ballistics-resource/terminal
Probably the must summed up version, care of Hornady :
Also known as wound ballistics, terminal ballistics is important to hunters because it illustrates how a particular bullet will transfer its potiental energy when it strikes the target. Ethical hunters want as quick and humane a kill as possible, and death is ultimately caused in one of two ways:
Severely interrupting or stopping the flow of oxygenated blood to the brain by damaging a major blood-bearing organ or by causing significant damage to the vascular system; or
Causing severe damage to the brain and/or cerebellum.
A scholarly piece.... :
http://www.southampton.ac.uk/~jb3/bullet/gsw.html
Last interesting piece :
http://www.researchgate.net/publica...anics_a_review/links/09e415102cd85f055d000000
Want "knock down power" ? Make a CNS hit- anywhere between the skull, along the spinal column. That will knock them down.
Beyond that, you are essentially perforating for the most damage, hoping to cause unconsciousness either through shock, blood loss, or usually, both.
Those of us who believe we can effectively place CNS hits on moving targets in life or death situations with regularity should opt for ammunition capacity sufficient to allow those shots to be placed. Those of us who do not have this predilliction generally opt for the largest permanent wound cavity possible to facilitate the rapid exsanguination of our target game or assailants. This is pretty much the crux of the "caliber for defense" argument. Not all of it, but it relays the majority of the "science" that most regular folks can understand.
From all of my readings, CNS hits are the exception rather than the norm in fatal gunfights. What generally happens is exsanguination.
For good example : The reliable 12 gauge shotgun using buckshot. The proverbial "knock down" master we see in the movies, and on forums of lesser ilk....
It did not get its reputation ( the basis of all these myths) because it actually flings people across the street, or simply causes them to give up the ghost upon hearing the racking sound of shell into chamber.... it gets that reputation because 9 to 15 30 caliber balls is quite a bit of perforation, and causes RAPID exsanguination. Except at really close distances, most of these projectiles will not exit the body of the target. They often do not break bones, they deform and go around them- although chest and rib breakage is a common occurence.
Each of those pellets is in reality smaller than a 9mm projectile ( .330ish vs .355 ) but 9 to 15 of them at once is a pretty certain show stopper for the target. I say this with certainty as a buckshot hunter who grew up in Michigan. Its the only 1st hand evidence I have, but it was a pretty convincing show to me.
With that said, I think your two pour ( or hardened base ) hollowpoints are a great choice. If it were my defensive piece, I would opt for a 260 grain of that variety- but I would test the bullets very carefully in media to make certain that the one that finds its mark is going to do what its supposed to do. Casting solid bullets isn't very hard. Casting
reliable hollowpoints, is.
I can tell you from experience that you will not get the deployment you want from wheelweight alloy. I would suggest a hard base ( linotype, or harder- perhaps 22-24 BHN ) and a pure lead tip/cavity.
Depending on the speed and quality of the projectile, all of my wheelweight HP's either violently disintegrated shortly after impact OR sailed right on through like a non hollowpoint. There were very few that worked like I mistakenly believed they should have. Through my studies of the bullet, I learned it was not poor bullet manufacturing per se, it was a poor materials choice in that manufacturing.
If you want to learn to cast great HP's, I'd suggest looking up 35whelen. He's here. He can guide you down the path to great HP's with much more experience than I can.