While we're all patting ourselves on the back here for being such self-reliant, independent thinking rugged individualists ... I think it's important to keep in mind just how this country got to this point.
It's not due solely to the shift in political thinking, the growth of the welfare state or anything like that ... I see only a couple big reasons for why so many people are the way they are these days ... For one, some people can go their entire lives and the worst disaster that might ever befall them is having their car not start up one morning when they're trying to get off for work ... so they call the auto club, have it towed and take a taxi to work ... or their toilet overflows and they have no idea how to use a plunger ... so they call a 24-hour plumber ...
Let's put things into perspective here. The stuff we use now, for the most part, works wonderfully. Cars don't typically break down often the way they used to ... Boys don't grow up having to know how to fix things, such as cars, appliances, or even have to do basic carpentry around the house anymore ... Our society is primarily urban, which means there's a huge safety net in most areas. What's the worst thing that can happen to most of us now? We can lose power for a few hours?
People don't have to know how to do anything for themselves now.
Another thing ... lots of single-parent households now or dual-working couples ... Americans work longer hours with less free time ... parents typically don't spend anywhere near as much time with their children as in years past. Fathers (if the family has one in the home) don't spent the countless hours teaching their sons how to use tools, replace an alternator, hell, even change a tire ...
Is self-reliance discouraged and even punished by the government? Yes.
I don't buy that. Self-reliance has simply become irrelevant to most people, that's all, because they don't need to be self-reliant. Our technology has evolved to the point where we are merely consumers, not doers.
Have we, as a nation, become subservient peasants? Yes.
No, we haven't, although there
are those pockets (see New Orleans, circa Sep. 2005, or most any big city now).
Do people in general look out for their own well-being? No.
Yes they, do, but only insofar as income and pursuing their materialistic desires.