By the time she learns a lesson, it'll be too late.

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I just don't know how to put it to her any clearer that you cannot do this to a pistol and expect it to work. :banghead: I go thru this twice a month when I do a disassemble / clean on it. Pocket fuzz, enough to make 20 pairs of pants. She refuses to use a pocket holster, and carries this around full of trash betting her life on it. I almost want to take it away like you do to a little kid and say "You don't deserve it, if you're gonna treat it like that". UGH!!!! :cuss:
 

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Seen worse. Just clean it for her every month, like you're already doing. Maybe twice a month.

She'll figure it out eventually. No point in fighting over it. Pocket holsters stink. Maybe a Crossbreed Minituck would be better.

It's just a Keltec/Ruger. I keep mine in a flowerpot.:rolleyes:
 
I almost want to take it away like you do to a little kid and say "You don't deserve it, if you're gonna treat it like that". UGH!!!!

This is one of the strangest posts I've read in a gun forum.

You would disarm your wife,,,
Because she won't meet your standard of gun maintenance?

:banghead:

Get a grip man,,,
Lecture her as much as you want,,,
Keep on her about how potentially bad this is.

Then do what a good loving husband should do,,,
Clean her gun weekly.

Aarond

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My wife does so much for me that I'd gladly inspect and clean her carry gun weekly, and not even lecture her about it. ;)
 
It will still shoot. How do I know...cause I'm lazy on cleaning the lint from my pocket pistols.

Not worth the fight. Just take it once a week from her and use the air compressor and blow it clean and hand back...in between the normal servicing schedule. The holster won't stop the lint problem though.

Now not using a holster to cover the trigger is a negligent discharge just waiting to happen. That is the real problem.

In that regard you got to do what you need to keep her safe.
 
I'd like to know how you get lint tangled in the recoil spring like that.


I agree with the others. If you're just cleaning lint it should take 5 minutes. She's probably washing your undies every week and chances are it take longer than 5 minutes. I wouldn't whine about it.

However, if she's just tossing it in her purse with pens and keys and other stuff just thrown in there with it, I'd agree that you need to address that.
 
Those pictures illustrate why I would never throw a gun into a purse, much less shove it into my pants. We have holsters for a reason...but let's face it, a lot of gun owners can be clueless. If she switches to a J frame, it'll probably only take seconds to clean it and might more sense.

Laura
 
I agree with AarondHGraham. If the choices for whom I'm assuming is your wife are that she go armed with a gun that will likely fire at least a few shots (definitely will fire one!), or go unarmed, well, need I say more?
 
There was a good reason why holsters were invented. A pocket is no place for a firearm.
 
I get it XD but...

Stop being a cry-baby or discipline freak (Mods - forgetting emoticons... It's all in good fun) and go to a little "glass half full" kinda guy.

At least she's carrying, if that's important to you. Make a point of de-linting it every Friday, Wednesday, Sunday... Whatever. I have to do my-gal-Sal's Sig very, very regularly and with a Galco... Small price, that.
 
See, the bad part is... she lets it get this bad without saying anything. If she would just say, Hey how bout a cleaning, No problem. She goes out to shoot it and it jams cause of all the junk in it, and she wants to go to the gun store and buy her a new one cause this one failed and she lost faith in it.. When they are clean, they work great. It's like selling a car cause the air in the tires are low. Then, you buy the same identical car. See, this is the 3rd LCP.... and there wasnt a dang thing wrong with the other 2 but dirty. You gotta admit, 300 a pop, that gets old. I believe some sort of holster would cut the lint by half. I'm just gonna have to swipe it once a week and clean it when she aint paying attention.
 
Stop being a cry-baby or discipline freak (Mods - forgetting emoticons... It's all in good fun) and go to a little "glass half full" kinda guy.

Hahahaha, so forcing her at knifepoint to face all the soup cans foreward and in alphabetical order is a bit much?? :D
 
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I think she needs to have some lessons from an NRA instructor who will hopefully shed light on why it's important to keep your guns cleans and carry them properly. My former teacher always said "take care of your guns and they'll take care of you." All guns go bang if they're maintained properly but, as I said earlier, I think many gun owners are clueless. They think they should always go bang no matter how they carry or the condition that builds inside the gun...and we know that's not true, not even for Glocks. If she's this clueless about caring for her guns, a good teacher might be able to help her understand her role as a gun owner.

Laura
 
Hahahaha, so forcing her at knifepoint to face all the soup cans foreward and in alphabetical order is a bit much?? :D
I wouldn't say that... Some transgressions simply must not be tolerated!:evil:

Thanks for taking it in the spirit intended... And, good luck with that.:D
 
Over reaction IMO. Take some dryer lint and bung it up before you clean it, and see, how much lint it takes for it to malfunction.
 
Personally I think this is a big nothing. I few years back I did a test with my Bersa thunder. 380. I carried it around for a couple of months without cleaning it then took it to the range and fired off a few magazines. Then I stuck it back in my pocket and carried around for a couple of months again and repeated. It never failed to fire even though it looked worse than the one in your picture.

The only reason I eventually gave up on the test was that my Dad saw it and shamed me into cleaning it. Of course, I had my LCR in my other pocket just in case:)
 
Does she ever wash your clothes or cook for you maybe? Replace the toilet paper roll? Go to the grocery store? Or do other things you appreciate? Clean it and move on. It's a gun and it'll work just fine with the little bit of fuzz it has in the picture. That's why they sell cleaning kits and supplies.
 
Continue to clean it and be satisfied in the knowledge that your wife has a husband that really cares about her safety and well being.
 
By the time she learns a lesson, it'll be too late.

I just don't know how to put it to her any clearer that you cannot do this to a pistol and expect it to work. :banghead: I go thru this twice a month when I do a disassemble / clean on it. Pocket fuzz, enough to make 20 pairs of pants. She refuses to use a pocket holster, and carries this around full of trash betting her life on it. I almost want to take it away like you do to a little kid and say "You don't deserve it, if you're gonna treat it like that". UGH!!!! :cuss:

Well, if you were going to apply that sort of reasoning to a standard of whether or not someone should be allowed to own and lawfully conceal carry a weapon ... I rather suspect lots of folks wouldn't qualify. :uhoh:

FWIW, as a LE firearms instructor & armorer, I've seen at least my fair share of issued & personally-owned weapons which weren't properly maintained. Lots of them had received what the issued users/owners thought was proper maintenance, but their chosen practices resulted in functioning problems, sooner or later, which I had to resolve in order to restore normal functioning.

Let me say it this way ...

Over the course of not only having been a firearms instructor, but also having served as an armorer for a number of different firearms commonly seen in LE usage (as well as personal defensive for private citizens), I've had to diagnose and correct many, many more "gun problems" which were actually "user/owner induced maintenance problems", than actual problems occurring with the guns.

A couple thoughts.

Yes, using a pocket holster is pretty important. A properly designed and used pocket holster can help cover and protect the trigger, as well as keep foreign objects from becoming lodged in the barrel. These are fairly important potential safety considerations.

The lint? Just keep it cleaned out periodically, as you've tried to be doing.

FWIW, a Centennial-style J-frame is probably less susceptible to lint getting inside it, but it still deserves at least a basic "pocket" holster (I use Uncle Mike's, as they're handy and affordable to replace when damaged or worn out/thru). Naturally, it's still a good idea to check things to make sure nothing's gotten down inside the holster, lodged in the barrel or the front of the cylinder charge holes, etc.

The J-frames with the steel yokes (442/642) seem to retain lubrication on the yoke bearing points better than some of the models which have aluminum yokes (Sc/Ti/PD models, M&P 340/360's), and it's prudent to check freedom of cylinder rotation now and again. I've had a few guys bring me PD's they've carried for UC/secondary roles because the trigger pulls were getting too heavy during their qual courses, and it was just dry yokes causing them some difficulty.

One of the guys who brought me an Airlite for attention said he'd had to manually (by hand) turn the cylinder in order to complete the course-of-fire. :eek: A couple drops of oil and things were light & spinning freely once again.

My pair of M&P 340's have occasionally exhibited some slowing of cylinder spin after a lot of carry and range use (blackened stainless steel cylinders, but still using aluminum yokes). More so than my 642's, 649, 37 & 36. Once I add a couple drops of lube to the yoke bearing points, the guns are back to normal.

Guns carried on the person can accumulate contamination. Things like lint from clothing; shed body cells & "fluff"; chemicals (deodorant); bits of leather, plastic or cloth from holster wear; and even some outside contaminants resulting from exposure to the environment (ankle holsters can be worse in this regard).

Does your wife like DA/DAO revolvers? The lightest of the Sc/Ti/PD J's can be almost as light as a LCP, but just as unpleasant to actually shoot, and the triggers are heavier. Read the ammunition warnings on the Sc/Ti/PD guns in the safety manual, though, to help prevent the potential for bullet pull (bullets jumping the crimps) for some particular shooter/gun/ammo combinations.

You probably check the air in her tires and motor oil, right? What's the big deal about helping her maintain her gun? :)
 
I think she needs to have some lessons from an NRA instructor who will hopefully shed light on why it's important to keep your guns cleans and carry them properly. My former teacher always said "take care of your guns and they'll take care of you." All guns go bang if they're maintained properly but, as I said earlier, I think many gun owners are clueless. They think they should always go bang no matter how they carry or the condition that builds inside the gun...and we know that's not true, not even for Glocks. If she's this clueless about caring for her guns, a good teacher might be able to help her understand her role as a gun owner.

Laura
I agree, this way someone ELSE is explaining basically the same thing. That's why it's a bad idea for family to teach family things like, driving, gun cleaning. Sometimes the same thing, perhaps in slightly different wording might get the point across. As for a holster, I carry a Kel Tec PF9, (bought specifically for deep concealment/pocket carry). I bought Nemesis Super Flye pocket holster, it takes up no more room than the gun, breaks up the outline, keeps the gun right where I need it.
 
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