I have never heard of a "perfect" throat diameter to groove diameter ratio. For my revolvers I slug the barrels to make sure the groove diameter is smaller than the measured throat diameter ("drop through", "push through", "snug", "loose" are not measurements and just a hair better than a WAG. I prefer to measure). Very accurate measurements of a cylinder throat can be done with slugging. I have Pin/Plug gauges for a couple of my guns and have used quite successfully expanding ball gauges. I know what my throats measure to the .0005"