Ok than.....What is the natural state of the spring? Uncompressed correct so according to your own explanation, when the spring is compressed the molecules change correct? Now if the spring stays this way and the molecules are not allowed to return to there natural state, they are static but in their unnatural state correct? I'm not following how this could make no difference in the life of the spring.
I believe this is what I'm saying.....It depends on the quality of the particular spring in question.
I'd bet the farm, that if you took a new car and didn't drive it at all but left it sit (experiment) for say 20 years, that ground clearance would not be as high as when new.