Sometimes it's okay to startle a person.
I don't make the slightest effort to protect the sensibilities of moonbats and prey animals.
I once had a "discussion" with an anti-gunner who puked up the pathetic "violence never solves anything" garbage. He went farther to posit that non-violence would always prevail over violence, citing Gandhi. I replied that if Gandhi had been up against Stalin or the Japanese, you wouldn't even know his name.
I proposed a thought experiment. He would be him and I would be Josef Stalin, and we would have a "debate".
As soon as he started to open his mouth, I pointed my finger at his head and said, "Bang!" From then on, every time he tried to speak, I'd "shoot" him, never letting him get a word out.
Finally, he managed to blurt out, "You can't shoot all of us!"
I replied, "YES, I CAN. I've got way more bullets than you've got dupes willing to die pointlessly for you. I'll either run out of dummies to shoot, they'll wise up and start shooting back, or they'll turn on you. I'll start taking people's families for 'questioning' which I'll 'allow' them to watch. I'll offer your friends an amnesty and maybe even a reward to sell you out. They'll give you up in no time... then I'll shoot them too. And I won't even have to have MY boys do it. To enhance their motivation, I'll just take the families of the police into 'protective custody' to make sure that they don't have to 'worry' about their 'safety' while they're slaughtering you like sheep."
He folded like a soggy refrigerator carton under the tracks of a T-34.
Anyone has an absolute right to lie to themselves. I have absolutely no duty to help them do it.
What did Harry Truman say? "I never gave anybody hell. I just told them the truth and they THOUGHT it was hell."