Shane333 said:
However, at age 3 there was a period when he would walk up to complete strangers and say, "I'm going to kill you."
Rofl!
When i was in 4th grade i would walk home every day (not far, maybe 1/4 a mile)
These kids would walk behind me and chuck rocks at me. For some reason (still cant figure it out) i would just keep walking, being pelted occasionaly by decent sized rocks. I never really said anything to anyone (be it "Im going to kill you" or otherwise) so maybe its not such a bad thing your kid is willing to stand up for himself...though saying "Ill kill your family" isnt the best of ways.
Im still not sure exactly why i never turned around and threw rocks back or something. Ive wisened up...and toughened up...wouldnt put up with sh...crap like that for any more than about 1 microsecond.
Strange how people change. I wonder if its becuase when i was a even little-er than that i had a very bad temper, so over time i learned to just take whatever life throws at you (including rocks) without reacting. Nowadays im smart enough to know there are some things you should weather out...and some things you shouldnt.
I still have a very good temper, though ive got a lot of hate in me. That kinda stuff never really goes away- its all a matter of knowing when to let it out (like on when doing 100 thrust punches to a bag your arms are getting tired at 50....)
Now ive gone and physco analyzed myself.... Father Knows Best, do your kid a favor, dont let him turn into a wierdo like me
In all seriousness (ive said that word 3 times in 2 posts....) i wouldnt worry to much about the kid. Society is vile today...just as it was 100 years ago. Were just more open about it. It was probably best to reprimand him as you did though; taking away the toy guns. he needs to know how serious the situation is (4 times) and though its hard for young children to comprehend (they forget easily).