I've never had one.. and I don't plan on it.
Not to make light of these statements, but I'm pretty sure no shooter ever
plans to have an ND.
I'm gonna speak up, since I pretty much know few others will have the cojones to 'fess up to having had an ND.
I'd bet paychecks Jeff Cooper didn't
plan to have his ND -- which he was man enough to admit to. I didn't
plan to have mine, either. In fact, I'd have preferred that it never happened. However, I learned from the event. I used to think I was perfect when it came to firearms safety, too.
Every time this topic comes up (which seems quite often lately), the self-righteous perfectionists among us are gonna pontificate on exactly why they will never experience one of these events. Good for them.
I've been a gun owner and a shooter since 1966. I've lived around guns all my life, worked with them or carried them almost daily during my adult years as part of my jobs. One evening, many years ago, after a couple of beers , I picked up one of my wife's pistols (yes, an egregious error in judgement), which I just
knew was unloaded (since she didn't typically keep this particular piece loaded). The pistol was her new Walther PPK/S, which I thought was pretty cool, and was in need of some dry-firing ... It was, in fact, loaded. A .380 ACP JHP went into our bedroom ceiling. A bit of lightweight spackle and some paint fixed the hole. My pride was another story. But, I learned from this. No, I don't believe that NDs
will happen to
everyone at some point. But I do believe that they
can happen to
anyone.
I didn't think I'd ever have one either.
If you follow the rules each and every second and only handle a gun when you are fully alert and aware then you shouldn't have an ND.
It must be great to go through life being fully alert and aware each and every second. Regrettably, in my fifty years, I've not been able to achieve this zen-like state of continuous awareness and constant alertness. Sigh.