Wow. How about I not show her this thread, as being called a selfish bitch would most likely decrease my odds of convincing her of anything. I don't need marriage advice(18 years with her), I don't need remarks about finances, I don't need much of what was posted here. I suppose I asked for it though. It is difficult for me to convey that this was light-hearted in nature. The basic information I wanted is how a pistol is a poor substitution for a rifle. If I wanted a $200 rifle VS a $5000 rifle, that is also my concern. Anyway, I appreciate the desire to offer me information. I will go back to my 90 posts in 4 years, with a better understand why I post little and read more.
You didn't need all this advice -- you asked for info on why a pistol wasn't as good as a rifle at controlling real estate. In the four years you've been ostensibly reading THR, you couldn't reference a million other threads answering that?
I guess it also raises a bit of ire in your fellow men when you casually mention that you've at one time purchased many relatively expensive rifles, sold them all to purchase newer ones to help cut down costs, and now your wife won't "allow unneeded expenses."
You might as well have started a thread with a story of "hey guys, my wife just sold my guns the other day." Effectively, that's just what happened and it's natural for many to be kind of upset over it, even if it didn't happen to them personally.
No, perhaps you didn't ask for this particular advice, nor maybe did you not really even deserve it, but it doesn't help getting all pi**y about it either.
I just recently got married myself; I hope to be married for eighteen years and beyond. But if I had already, during our marriage, bought many expensive rifles and I sold them to buy less expensive ones and was suddenly told "no" then there'd be a real problem with that. If you've already got the $2,200 bucks lined up, or had the money lined up, then I'd go out and buy it and deal with the fallout later.
As many others have said, this isn't a case of need vs. want. This is a case of simple respect for one's spouse.
You came to THR for a reason. Many THR members are extremely perceptive and well-spoken (like Steve above); since any of us can take "rifle" and substitute "car" or "legos" or "model 14th century sailing ships" then perhaps the rifle isn't really the problem?
If I'm wrong, I'm wrong. If we all missed entirely the point, then we've erred badly. But I ask in all gentleness and seriousness, that you think about what people have said.