I've got a friend - well, it's more a friend of my wife - that enjoys shooting. He had shot a number of mine ranging from .22 up to .44 magnum. After never owning a gun himself, he bought a Ruger 22/45 last year.
Now he wants to buy another gun. We went looking with no specific model in mind; just to see what would "jump out at him". Finally he spied and had his heart set on a new Ruger Super Redhawk in .44 magnum. Very good price too. e discussed it and I questioned why that one. Turned out he just wanted a "big hole". Nothing wrong with that. I left for a few minutes to attend to my son's needs and upon returning he had talked himself out of it. He still seems to want one.
Now...here's where I'd like some assistance. He's the type that knows all, about all and can't see that what techniques he uses and what he "knows" aren't quite always correct. You can't tell this to him though. Now, if he can't shoot his .22 very accurately, comments or the amount of recoil my .357, .45 and .44s have and won't re-learn what he "knows", I don't see him being able to really enjoy his soon-to-be-new handgun. Is there a method to subtlely inform him of this in a manner he'll take to? I tried to pursuade him into a .45LC explaining that even with a "big hole" there were plenty of easy-shooting loads. This was to no avail.
Now he wants to buy another gun. We went looking with no specific model in mind; just to see what would "jump out at him". Finally he spied and had his heart set on a new Ruger Super Redhawk in .44 magnum. Very good price too. e discussed it and I questioned why that one. Turned out he just wanted a "big hole". Nothing wrong with that. I left for a few minutes to attend to my son's needs and upon returning he had talked himself out of it. He still seems to want one.
Now...here's where I'd like some assistance. He's the type that knows all, about all and can't see that what techniques he uses and what he "knows" aren't quite always correct. You can't tell this to him though. Now, if he can't shoot his .22 very accurately, comments or the amount of recoil my .357, .45 and .44s have and won't re-learn what he "knows", I don't see him being able to really enjoy his soon-to-be-new handgun. Is there a method to subtlely inform him of this in a manner he'll take to? I tried to pursuade him into a .45LC explaining that even with a "big hole" there were plenty of easy-shooting loads. This was to no avail.