That is a perfectly reasonable reaction. In fact, I would argue it would be irresponsible to simply answer the door and hope for the best.
This is a red flag. I am not a hermit, but I do not like when people show up at my door after dark randomly. If its a neighbor with some legitimate reason, ok, but some stranger showing up- I don't like that.
Was this guy drunk or something? You don't bang on a person's door at 10:30 (or any time of day) and demand they "open up." At this point I wouldn't of even helped him out if he was that brazen and rude about it. Was the guy from NJ or something?
Overall, a stranger shows up loud and aggressive at your door at night- and you reacted properly. Sounds like if you were unarmed he was going to try to bully you into assistance.
At around 10:30pm the doorbell rang, we were not expecting anybody,
This is a red flag. I am not a hermit, but I do not like when people show up at my door after dark randomly. If its a neighbor with some legitimate reason, ok, but some stranger showing up- I don't like that.
they started to knock loudly and shout "anybody Home"? "open up"
Was this guy drunk or something? You don't bang on a person's door at 10:30 (or any time of day) and demand they "open up." At this point I wouldn't of even helped him out if he was that brazen and rude about it. Was the guy from NJ or something?
Overall, a stranger shows up loud and aggressive at your door at night- and you reacted properly. Sounds like if you were unarmed he was going to try to bully you into assistance.