My dad is looking for a new 9mm (sick of not being able to find .38 ammo), but is picky. No glocks, or XD's. I personally think he wants the heft of a steel or alloy frame. He's a leftie (throws right handed, writes and shoots left), and said he liked the total ambidextrous nature of my ruger, but wanted something else. What is out there that is ambidextrous with either a safety or decocker, and the mag release?