Apocalypse-Now said:
you're wife didn't show a policeman her ccw as required by law in TN, then was patted down (appropriately) for the officer's safety, and you're upset with the officer?
Wow. Please make sure you actually understand the law before you make a judgment like this.
The OP's wife isn't required to show her permit, unless directly requested by the officer. SHE DID NOTHING WRONG, here. PERIOD.
How was patting her down "appropriate"? The stop was almost concluded. She had given no signs of being EITHER armed, nor dangerous. What was the reasonable suspicion which prompted the officer to need to pat her down?
Ownership of a concealed carry permit is not indicative of ANY crime in progress, nor of that person being "dangerous." In fact, it rather suggests the opposite.
if a male LE officer knows there's a very good chance someone has a gun on them, i don't think there are many that would do the politically correct thing and wait for a female officer to arrive thereby putting their lives at risk.
Putting their lives at risk? Really? If an officer has some reason to believe that their life will be at risk if they approach this car (again), then they will stay in their own vehicle, call for backup, and wait for it to arrive. Not approach the person alone and physically interact with them. Frisking for weapons on a suspected-dangerous person is a risky thing to do. Having at least another officer present with gun drawn would be the right approach if the officer really believes this person is
armed AND dangerous. Not go ask them to exit the car and then get within contact distance and pat them down -- just to see if maybe they'll turn on him and try to kill him. That doesn't make sense.
A one-on-one frisk like this reads entirely as an intimidation and/or fishing expedition tactic. A true suspicion of danger would dictate a completely different way of handling the situation.
... as for the car search-consider it a lesson taught for her not showing her permit, which can be revoked for such things, btw, and it was nice the officer didn't proceed with that.
Again, no. No it can't and no, he couldn't have. Because the law doesn't say anything like that.
And I think your first clause here is extremely telling, of both the expected "citizen" mindset, and the probable mindset of the officer: Consider the car search "a lesson."
A search is NOT supposed to be something done as a punitive measure, an intimidation technique, or to "teach" anyone "a lesson" to respect the officer's authority or to behave in a certain way. It is for officer safety, period.
When we say, "this act wasn't conducted according to law, but understand and accept that he was trying to teach you a lesson to divulge any and all information that might be interesting to him..." -- well, that's why these things continue to happen.
Know the law. Follow the law. Know your rights.
DEFEND your rights.