I only visited Vietnam as a non-combatant (Merchant Marine). However I consider those who served my brothers.
My actual brother, a doorgunner in the Air Cav, had this to say:
"This is a sad commentary on a lot of Vietnam vets who just won't let it go."
Although I understand the strong feelings, Vets have got to somehow deal with it. Letting that ##### rent space in your head isn't worth it. She isn't worth it.