thanks for all of the great advice. I do have two big labs. Of course, their bark is much worse than their bite. My wife tried to talk to those goofballs at Qwest, and they said that unless we release our name/number to the caller (he still insists that it's his computer - yeah, right, telemarketing at 1:30 am, sure) that they can't do anything else. So I called Qwest yesterday, and they said that they would 'trap' the calls, and they also see the phone records where his line was disconnected last April for harrassing us. They said they would kill his line if he called three more times. My response was that we have already been through all of this. So what? Do I just have to plan on going through it every 3-4 months?
Anyhow, I guess wishing this away won't work. Some other things on my mind are:
- I can't take Jen to the firing range to learn how to use a pistol because she is 5 months pregnant. Won't that noise harm the baby? Maybe just dry fire exercises or something. Any advice here is appreciated.
- I guess I will go ahead and change the number. Then if he finds us, I will really know that this is a serious whack job on my hands.
- I'm really trying to stay alert. Yesterday as I left for work, we live right next to a park and I see this kind of nasty looking dude just sitting in his car. So I get to thinking that this my be the guy, and he's waiting for me to leave. So I circle the car aroung the block and just watch him for a few minutes. It was nothing, but I guess you can't blame me for being paranoid.
- My schedule is pretty consistent. Which is a bummer. I go to work at 7:00 and come home at 5:30. I've told Jen to leave all of the doors locked while at home, but it still doen't do much for my peace of mind.
- I will get more diligent and log this stuff when it happens. I've been relying on the police/phone company to cover me (more laziness than naitivity), but as one of you guys put it, the police are mostly there to react.
- I really like the idea of that little pistol safe. I'll look into that. Right now, the pistol (Glock 27) is in the closet, magazine separated from the pistol. This is mostly due to my wife's fear of Caleb (my 3 year old) getting his hands on it. I stated my concerns to her. - For one, what if she is being chased through the house, and has to insert the mag, chamber a round, etc. My second concern is that if there is a break in at night, the sound of a round being chambered just gave away my position. Oh well, I think the safe is the best idea. It seems to solve most of those problems.
- I will certianly keep it legal. As HBK put it, "Never wrestle with a pig" - My big temtpation was just to go see who this guy is - more out of morbid curiosity than 'shoving a pistol in his throat' -
thanks again for all of the great advice, and the concern on your part!
cheers,
Tracy