thefitzvh
Member
This is probably OT, but I need some advice from people who've been in this situation before... I live in an area where, for various reasons, I don't associate with the people that live near me. Other than my fiance, you guys are the whole group of friends I have. So, I know this is off topic, but I figured I'd ask for advice, since I've never had any bad advice given to me on this board.
I just found out my sister is back home. About a year ago , she moved out to SF to live with her boyfriend. Today, she came back. Her boyfriend forced her to, because she's addicted to cocaine (news to us), and apparently she almost died recently.
I just came to a fairly frightening realization that, no matter how good your parents are, or how "well rounded" your family is, stuff like this can happen to anyone. It's disconcerting to say the least.
I called my commander and let him know that I'm not gonna be in today, and I'm going to make sure my sister is alright. I want some advice from you guys. Has anyone here had a loved one addicted to drugs? how did you deal with it? How can I help her without coming across as condescending or lecturing...
I don't want to lecture her, because I love the kid. As much as I used to argue and bicker when we were kids, I'd hate it if anything happened to her. On the other hand, I wanna smack the hell out of her. But I think the most important thing I could do right now is be supportive, so I'm gonna try to go talk to her and see how she's doing.
Anyways, mods please move or delete this if you'd like, but there's no one I trust for advice more than the members of THR. Here we have a collection of some of the most level headed and responsible people in America, and that's what I need right now.
Thanks guys,
James
Gun Related: until she started F**king up, she was a helluva shot with a ruger mkII.
I just found out my sister is back home. About a year ago , she moved out to SF to live with her boyfriend. Today, she came back. Her boyfriend forced her to, because she's addicted to cocaine (news to us), and apparently she almost died recently.
I just came to a fairly frightening realization that, no matter how good your parents are, or how "well rounded" your family is, stuff like this can happen to anyone. It's disconcerting to say the least.
I called my commander and let him know that I'm not gonna be in today, and I'm going to make sure my sister is alright. I want some advice from you guys. Has anyone here had a loved one addicted to drugs? how did you deal with it? How can I help her without coming across as condescending or lecturing...
I don't want to lecture her, because I love the kid. As much as I used to argue and bicker when we were kids, I'd hate it if anything happened to her. On the other hand, I wanna smack the hell out of her. But I think the most important thing I could do right now is be supportive, so I'm gonna try to go talk to her and see how she's doing.
Anyways, mods please move or delete this if you'd like, but there's no one I trust for advice more than the members of THR. Here we have a collection of some of the most level headed and responsible people in America, and that's what I need right now.
Thanks guys,
James
Gun Related: until she started F**king up, she was a helluva shot with a ruger mkII.