Are you wanting to use jacketed bullets for the .40, or non jacketed?
What performance range are you seeking, high velocity, mid, or low velocity target?
We are all very interested in helping new reloaders get going, but you probably need to get a better idea of what type of load performance you are seeking, what economic range are you seeking, and for what purpose will you be using these loads for.
Once you have a couple of good quality reloading books it will be easier for us to address your specific areas of interest and concern. As for books, considering the huge amount of published data available data on line, I would focus on books that are geared toward reloading instruction and deffinition. This will enable you to mroe accurately address future questions that will present.
I have found the Speer reloading books to be very good learning books, and ABC's of reloading is excellent as well. But deffinitely get a couple of those.
GS