I'm wondering what the cylinder throat diameter measure on these guns. Has S&W changed the throat diameter, if so when?
I have a S&W 696 and the throats measure .429" and leading is not a issue. I had a Ruger Red Hawk in .44 Mag. that leaded badly at the forcing cone, the throats measured .434".
All I can say, is that I remember an article claiming that S&W had tightened chamber mouths to 0.429 for a while and that batch of M629's were exceptionally accurate. I have one of that lot, a M629-4 and it is exceptionally accurate, but pressures rise fast. I will take cutting loads as a good trade off for accuracy. I am sure the throats got larger after complaints, and maybe they have gotten tighter again.
As to what Ruger does, or any manufacturer, firstly SAAMI specs are guidance. The manufacturer can follow SAAMI numbers, or do whatever they want. I noticed my Ruger 308 Tactical has huge chamber throats, the case necks expand more than any other 308 barrel I own. I am sure Ruger did this to prevent case neck pinching problems. Pinching problems that create kaboomy problems with reloads. Lots of expansion reduces my case life, (the accuracy is fine), and I am sure big chamber necks reduce Ruger's product liability problems too. Ruger, like all other firearm manufacturers, has liability from lawsuits from reloaders, and owners using ammunition made by Tropical Jack's ammunition company. That's the company where the management and workers arrived stoned, and leave stoned. They ammunition they make varies considerably but at least everyone who works there is happy.
As the President said: "GOD SAVE THE QUEEN!"
I do believe that huge chamber throats in revolvers hurts accuracy. My first S&W 25 in 45LC had 0.456" chamber throats, and 0.452 lead bullets shot dinner plate sized groups. My M25-7 in 45 LC has 0.452" chamber throats, and it is very accurate with 0.452 lead bullets.
You could call Ruger and see if they will do something. If not, and you are still unhappy with your chamber throats you could call Bowen Classic Arms
https://bowenclassicarms.com/about.html and see if they will install a new cylinder. Bowen used to do custom work, and their work is top notch. Expect to pay as much for a new cylinder and fitting as you did for your Ruger. Some itches cost a lot to scratch.