I was hopeing and praying that I would never have to post on this thread again, but the time has come. this is directly related to the stalker though so here it goes.
earlier in the thread I had mentioned her ex-boyfriend who was rather mental. He had threatened me and threatened her, the police had been called but nothing ever materialized. he then move to florida with some family. he was the kind of guy that all you aprents dread and lothe. he comes out as a gentleman and opens the doors and buys flowers and candy for a girl and then turns it all around and becomes a complete jerk. he has absolutly no respect for anyone. he believe the world owes him something. his family is on welfare and he is a highschool drop out. but as I said before, he comes out as a really nice guy when you first meet him. so I was sitting down with my girlfriend on her break at work. and I look up and see him come walking up to the front of the convenience store. I said "holy crap" in a wispered tone. my gf looks at me and only gets the first part of "what?" out of her mouth before she sees him. I was very shocked, after all, last I had heard he had joined the marines in florida. so he locks his eyes on us but gets what he needs and pays for it, nothing wronge so far. he then goes towards the door and goes out. I thought "good he's gone without a scene". then he pokes his head back in the door and says to my girlfriend loud enough for the whole stoor to hear "GOODNIGHT YAH LITTLE B****" .I was infuriated but I know that I can't really do much yet. so that was that. then he goes outside and comes back in and yells a phrase I won't even post with editing.
at that point my girlfriend walks to the door, with me right behind her. and asks (very calmly)
"what are you trying to start?".
he says
"same thing I've been trying to start for the last eight month but have been too far away"
she says
"just leave"
he points at me and says
"wanna start this now? I got a thing or two to show you"
I said
"there is nothing to start"
he then goes on to ask me if I knew where my gf was on wednesday night. I just kept a completely expressionless face.
he then tells me that my gf was with him and they were (expletive)
I just shook my head.
the fact of the matter was that I was with my girlfriend until 2:30 in the morning on wednesday night. he was just trying to get me mad so that he could start a fight with me. that kind of crap doesn't work with me though so I just shook my head. well, by that time my gf is in tears and very emotional. she goes back inside to the break room. I follow as far as I can, the break room is employees only. ex-boyfriend leaves. so then I stand outside the break room and talk to the managers that are on duty about the situation. they assure me that they will call the cops if he comes back and makes a scene. I told them that I had dealt with this punk before and to expect him to come back. just as I said that he drives back up. he comes in but does not say a word, just buys something small and leaves. he does this three more times. I then ask permission from the manager to go into the break room to comfort my (still crying) girlfriend. he says yes. so I go back with her and help her as best I can. then we go out and she goes into the bathroom. as she is in the BR in walks X again. she walks out of the BR, gives me a hug and goes back to work, totally ignoring him. so he buys a bottled water and walks back out. the manager and I walk outside as well. I was going to my car, the manager was making sure he did not make a scene. X pulls the car up beside me and tells me to follow him so that he "doesn't start anything here". do I have stupid tattooed across my forehead or something? I just told him very politely that there is nothing to start. so the manager tells him that if he continues to harass his employees he will call the cops as soon as he enters the parking lot. X yells a few more expletives and also points out the useless fact that he had bought a bottled water. so I get what I need and walk back inside with the manager. that was the last I have seen X, that was about 1 hour ago. I am going to be picking my gf up from work soon and I am not far away.
and so the saga continues. X is back from florida. the gf still carries a cell phone and mace. I am never in condition white. since the paper trail has already been started I guess the only thing to do is call the police everytime he comes by.
ps. X and stalker are good friends. coincidence? I don't think so.