We live out a bit (25 miles) from town. Just the wife and I and critters. I keep a shotgun tube loaded no round in the chamber, safety on, under the bed and my EDC is always with me- and I mean everywhere. To me, what’s the point of all this training, practice, reloading yadda yadda, if I am not prepared.
I have met Murphy a few times in life and he always visits when I am least prepared. I love my home and wife and critters and if someone comes to do us harm, I would never forgive myself for not being ready. Also have a j frame loaded in a spot that is a half-way point to most things in the house. If we leave the house, all firearms are placed in the safe, except of course my edc.
PS: when ANY children or teenagers or adults I don’t know very well or trust yet, come for a visit, all firearms are put in the safe except my edc. Being 55 I still remember how crafty I was as a kid finding my Dad’s guns and ammo. I was taught well by him to respect firearms, but I was still a curious kid who wanted to make things go bang and blow stuff up (nothing’s changed for me there