B Dickens wrote:
And Pilot: I hope you never try that with gang-bangers. Real gang bangers, not wannabees. They are not scared of guns, not scared of violence, and most certainly not scared of you. They do not live in the same world you and I live in. Violence for them is a way of life and they do not value life. Yours or theirs. Death means nothing, scars and bullet holes are their Bronze and Silver Stars. Getting cut, shot, arrested, serving time in prison move them up in rank and power within the hierarchy.
Trying to keep from getting too philosophical, I would agree with everyone that has stated situational awareness is going to be your greatest ally. That being said, B Dickens hit the nail on the head, but I take a different approach to it.
He is most certainly correct when he describes many of the criminals that roam our streets in the description posted above. My observation would be, you had better be ready to deal with that type of individual. If you aren't willing to get in the gutter and play by their rules, there is a good chance you will lose. I know it sounds trite and cliched, but if the heat is too hot, get out of the kitchen.
That doesn't make me a tough guy, it doesn't make me Rambo, or a Mall Ninja, what that says is I value my life, the life of my family, and the lives of other innocent people. Because I value those lives, I have decided, FOR ME PERSONALLY, that I will do whatever it takes to defend those lives.
I just laugh at the comments from people that say, "avoidance is the best solution."
I want to say, "Really? Not being involved in this type of situation is the best solution? Gee, why don't any of those dummies that have these situations happen, think about that."
If someone is walking in a bad part of town, provoking a group or gang of people, and then wondering why they are in trouble, they deserve what they get. But seeing how I never read or hear about those events, I'm going to give the benefit of the doubt to those that get stuck in them.
On the flip side:
The idea that somehow a gun is some sort of magick talisman to ward of evil and that waving it around will make the bad guys recoil in horror like Dracula from a silver crucifix is unrealistic at best and quite possibly lethal despite what you may read in the "Armed Citizen" column in American Rifleman.
The majority of criminals you may face are not going to be cold, calculating, and calm, and whether you want to call a gun a "magic talisman" or anything else for that matter, the point is, in the vast majority of encounters involving a gun, no shots are fired? Why is that? I believe it helps criminals remember that they have a better place to be.
That is why guns are called equalizers, they make 1 greater than many, a woman stronger than a man, an old person able to defeat a young, etc... Magic Talisman? No. Effective weapon and equalizer? Yes.