RetiredUSNChief
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As an instructor, the absolute worst part about teaching women to shoot is when their husbands come along.
You know, as a husband I can honestly understand. Sometimes I find it's just better for close family members to get their teaching/training on certain subjects from someone outside the immediate family. My kids, on certain subjects, are prime examples. Sometimes is just comes across better from someone else.
My wife and I have been shooting together a few times...and just recently started going shooting together again. I didn't realize that she required so much more attention on how things work since the previous time (several years ago), and I made darn sure I wasn't patronizing or impatient about anything...and let her take the lead.
She's due to get her first, very own pistol next month for her birthday: a brand, spanking new Walther PPK/S, something she has expressed a clear interest in. And I DARN sure am not going to screw this up by doing anything stupid like shooting it first without her knowledge, or treating it like it's anything but HER pistol that SHE will be the expert with.
About the only thing I'll do with it before it gets gift wrapped is a basic mechanical function check, an "everything there" check, and a breakdown/reassembly so I'll know how to do it on that pistol. I gotta at least be able to discuss those things with her, because she's gonna ask!