First wife: I scuba dived, cycled, built RC Airplanes, WANTED guns, etc., etc., etc. By the end of that marriage, all I could do was cycle 2 hours on a Saturday morning. That women destroyed ALL of my hobbies, one by one. She couldn't even stand for me to exercise one hour by myself three times a week. She wanted complete control of our money and my time for her purposes.
Second wife: completely different. She is excited that I have built a few guns to uniquely fit her. She has done a couple of Appleseeds with me and can shoot. Yes, she says: do you really need another one? So I consider carefully new purchases. She is not into guns the way I am, but she is more than tolerant. I can also workout, build airplanes, and scuba dive (and finish the upstairs attic, and work on the house, etc).
To the OP: I heard stuff like that from my first wife. If she is willing to start drawing lines now to put restrictions on you ("you are choosing XXXXX over me?"), then it will only increase until she has made you over in the image that she has for you. Once you start capitulating to the "XXXX or me" argument, you have lost it all. Tell her how many guns you have. Get ALL of this business out in the open NOW, before you have kids, and let the chips fall where they may.
Second wife: completely different. She is excited that I have built a few guns to uniquely fit her. She has done a couple of Appleseeds with me and can shoot. Yes, she says: do you really need another one? So I consider carefully new purchases. She is not into guns the way I am, but she is more than tolerant. I can also workout, build airplanes, and scuba dive (and finish the upstairs attic, and work on the house, etc).
To the OP: I heard stuff like that from my first wife. If she is willing to start drawing lines now to put restrictions on you ("you are choosing XXXXX over me?"), then it will only increase until she has made you over in the image that she has for you. Once you start capitulating to the "XXXX or me" argument, you have lost it all. Tell her how many guns you have. Get ALL of this business out in the open NOW, before you have kids, and let the chips fall where they may.
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