Apparently you're looking for a "barbeque gun" and the only way to select one to your liking is to visit a dealer and handle them.
What bizarre conclusion. He only asked what guns were available for a specific budget - your projecting the remainder based on your prejudices.
For $1200, there are a number of quality guns avaliable: Colt, STI, SIG, Smith and Wesson, Springfield, Dan Wesson (if you look carefully) and Kimber all make guns in that price range that are good quality and will work.
The difference you're going to find is some guns will have cast frames, while others will have forged frames. Some will have MIM parts while others won't. You can search the forums and find all of the arguments for and against cast / forged / MIM, etc.
The problem for you is finding out what you want and are willng to accept in how the gun is built, and if it's important to you, how it looks.
For the money, the Dan Wessons are still one of the best buys in a 1911. They use a forged frame, the parts that they make are bar stock, and the parts they buy are high quality like Brown, Greider, EGW.
The other side of the purchase is manufacturer support if you need it. Springfield and S&W are literally no questions asked - they'll email a shipping label and instructions. The other manufacturers are generally good, and will get the gun fixed - you can find all of the horror stories you want about any manufacturer but I wouldn't take that as anything but one person's experience with their gun and a manufacturer. This even includes Wilson Combat who are generally acknowledged as having the consistently best customer service of any gun manufacturer - which only points out that no one is perfect.
I'd look at all of the guns from the manufacturers recommended in this thread, and you'll find one that fits your budget and aesthetic preferences. I also wouldn't rule out less expensive 1911's like the Ruger, and guns made in the Phillipines.
If it was my $1200, I'd look at Springfield, Colt, S&W, STI, and SIG. If you can spend a little more money, I'd get a Dan Wesson Valor or VBOB, or look for a used Les Baer.