For wet tumbling I use auto wash and wax a about 1/2 a 9mm case of citric acid. (available in the canning section at Wally World) Cases come out with a nice shine, not as much as with Flitz and corn cob but I like the idea nice clean primer pockets.
Having said that I reloaded for about 6 months before buying a dry tumbler (first) and just washed the cases in water with dish soap and a dab of the pink rust remover.
The brass wasn't as shiney, the primer pockets were not spotless but it seemed to shoot just fine.
(I do have to admit that a nice shine makes looks great however)