What carry gun for woman buyer 1st time

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Some women, including both my wife and my mother, don’t have the hand or finger strength for repeated firing of DA revolvers. Or just don’t like them/feel unsafe with the amount of effort they need to use to manipulate the controls. So even though in theory they make the perfect reliable firearm for someone who wants to own a gun or to carry but isn’t necessarily a recreational shooter or firearms enthusiast, in practice it ain’t always so.

People (men or women) like what they like. My wife found a Sig 238 to her liking (and just about nothing else) in terms of hand feel, ergos, trigger reach, recoil, etc.

Another girl I work with fell in love with the purple LCP (because it was cute and small and purple.)

While neither of these guns is exactly “the best” in terms of desired features on a spec sheet, they are both a darn sight better than a sharp stick for self defense and would probably do the job just fine on a dark night if necessary. And what’s more, because they are liked by the gals who own them, they are much more likely to be carried or practiced with.
 
I got my girl friend a S&W Shield MP .380 EZ. A little large, but easy to use and learn on and fine for carry in a large handbag.

Bob
 
My daughter carries a Sig. 22 lr. I know, I know. I've seen her shoot. She can empty a mag. into your shirt pocket before you can say Oh, crap.
 
Check around where you live and see if you can find an indoor range at a gun store which will let her rent guns to try out. This is the best way for her to see what she likes. Before you go to the store with the range, call them and see what they require to use their indoor range and what prices are for different rental guns. Also see how many guns you can rent at one time and if there are any ammo restrictions. Most indoor ranges will not let you use steel case or aluminum ammo in their ranges because of safety reasons.

I've done this a couple of times with new shooters and it works really well with them. It also lets them handle different firearms that they are attracted to and gives you an idea what fits their hands better too.
 
I encourage folks to go to Kathy Jackson's web site, The Cornered cat.

It is by a woman and directed to women. It's also one of the best gun websites out there for basic instruction and knowledge, period.

"Many women have discovered that even if they have a husband or friend ready and willing to do every last bit of the legwork or even purchase a gun for them, it really pays off to do your own shopping anyway.

“My husband bought me my first gun,” says Jennie van Tuyl, a gun shop owner in Washington. “He tried to research which guns had smaller grips for me. We learned the hard way that one needs to be involved in the shopping for her own gun. I decided I needed a gun that fit my hand better and was easier to conceal.”

https://www.corneredcat.com/article/choosing-firearms/gun-store-miss-adventures/

Trying on a handgun

https://www.corneredcat.com/article/choosing-firearms/trying-on-a-handgun/

Semi-auto or revolver

https://www.corneredcat.com/article/choosing-firearms/semiauto-or-revolver/
 
Best gun is one that she will train with on a regular diligent schedule. Shooting it often to become competent with it. This requires time and money. To find the best gun hit the ranges and try out many. Rent guns and go through at least a half dozen. Never choose a gun for someone else.
After choosing the right gun, train and practice daily with drawing and dry firing etc. Handle the gun often throughout the day. Hit the range a min. of once a week. Stock up on plenty of ammo when purchasing.
 
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I encourage folks to go to Kathy Jackson's web site, The Cornered cat.

It is by a woman and directed to women. It's also one of the best gun websites out there for basic instruction and knowledge, period.

"Many women have discovered that even if they have a husband or friend ready and willing to do every last bit of the legwork or even purchase a gun for them, it really pays off to do your own shopping anyway.

“My husband bought me my first gun,” says Jennie van Tuyl, a gun shop owner in Washington. “He tried to research which guns had smaller grips for me. We learned the hard way that one needs to be involved in the shopping for her own gun. I decided I needed a gun that fit my hand better and was easier to conceal.”

https://www.corneredcat.com/article/choosing-firearms/gun-store-miss-adventures/

Trying on a handgun

https://www.corneredcat.com/article/choosing-firearms/trying-on-a-handgun/

Semi-auto or revolver

https://www.corneredcat.com/article/choosing-firearms/semiauto-or-revolver/

I would also add buying a copy of her book The Cornered Cat.
 
I can't think of a worse handgun than a small-frame revolver. No capacity, reloads are more problematic, poor sight radius (& generally poor sights), heavy trigger, and heavy-for-caliber recoil. If there's on handgun she won't ever practice with, most likely, that is it.

Obviously .22 is a poor defensive choice, but is it poorer than missing, or not ever being carried? I've never met any new shooter who didn't love a .22. It eliminates so much of what builds bad habits. It's fun to shoot, non-intimidating, and perhaps most importantly... CHEAP to practice with.

If she never practices, she might as well not have a gun period. A quality, reliable .22 doesn't have to be the end of her defensive aspirations, but can't think of any better start. It's not like .380 or even 9mm are likely fight-enders anyway.
 
Hi all, a very good friends 21 year old grand daughter is going to move to an area that has some pretty bad crime in order to attend college. He is steering her towards a compact .380 or 9mm. I know she has shot, and likes it but not much practice. I have always been in the .38 special revolver for 1st time guy or gal that hasn't shot much. What say you? Thanks Mac


Anybody ask her what she might want?

Does she feel more comfortable with a revolver or semi auto?



I wish these soon to be 1st time gun owners would join the forum .... I'm sure it would be better than 4th party questions being asked.
 
Oh, this is easy.
If she:
-expects to earn extra money as a pole dancer, then one of those cute pink or lavender CA Undercovers
-is Goth or into Heavy Metal, then anything black
-is into country western, then an engraved, nickel plated single action
-is pretty much normal, then anything beige, definitely beige (you may know it as Flat Dark Earth); goes with anything. :)
 
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