Daniel,
So far you've come across as a lot more mature than some of your detractors here. Please don't lose the high ground... or The High Road. Even if sometimes the place might fall short of its name, we're trying. Hang in there.
As for Mini-14s, I personally don't care for 'em. I'd rather have an AR for a 5.56 carbine. Good magazines are a hassle for Minis, and they tend to develop wandering zeros as they heat up. I understand there have been some changes in newer models, but I haven't used a Mini since the 182 series, so I don't know if they have fixed that major issue or not.
AKs are useful, but I like ARs better. Maybe because I have more experience with them, as much as anything else. I just find ARs easier to hit with. True, AKs are less expensive. But price isn't everything.
Anyone who can afford a Mini (or a good M-1 carbine), can IMHO pretty much afford a decent AR with only a little more effort. The frenzy provoked by the recent election seems to be slowing down some.
Stag makes a mirror image left handed AR- see the company website at
http://www.stagarms.com/ for more information. They make good ARs. And magazines and accessories are a lot more available for AR platforms as well. If you have your heart set on a carbine, that's as good a choice as any.
And I mean carbine, whether you get a 16" or a 20" barrel- it's a carbine caliber IMO no matter what barrel length it comes out of. Even so, I think it has enough advantages to make it a worthwhile consideration. If I didn't think so, I wouldn't have sent my wife to Louis Awerbuck's carbine class as a birthday present a couple of years ago, and given her a new AR carbine to go with it. The nice thing about the AR platform is that it is pretty easily managed by broad range of shooters, from 14-year-olds to 60-something university professor types like my wife.
Around here in rural SE NC, what lots of folks generally depend on for defensive long guns are pump shotguns. But there is always one AR carbine outside the safe in this house as well, when we are at home. We live way out in the country, and the only deputy on duty might well be on the far side of the county if we needed help. People around here are as a rule prepared to take care of themselves, the way rural folks are most anywhere in the country. It isn't the way things would be in a perfect world, but it will be a while before we achieve perfection here on the third rock.
It's for your parents to decide what responsibilities you're ready to assume and when- not mine. I hope they have instilled in you a full appreciation for the level of responsibility that goes with handling any firearm. If not, it's pretty much up to you to seek out your own education yourself, and to find and develop mentors to help you along your way. Have you had your state's hunter safety class yet, for example? It's a good start, and I encourage anyone at any stage of their shooting career to take it if they haven't had it at least once already.
I wish you the best of luck,
lpl