still lookin but...
I am still looking for what to carry and how, as to my thread the other day, and thank you all for your replies. I am happy to hear that I am not alone in my particular interests and being disabled.
In my apartment, my XDm 40 is stoked with Federal, 135gr Hydra Shoks, in an efford to avoid any over penetration. It functions flawlessly and shoots a little high, but nothing concequential at that distance.
In the P-64, I run Hornady 95gr XTP. Never had a problem with it.
I am still looking for a better carry piece, so I am interested to know what others like in their 38 and 380 carry guns.