I want to use the same ammo for defence and practice at the range . Because using 357 mag and 38spl. 125 gr. +P jhp is so unpleasant for me to shoot with my 2.25" SP101 , I use 158gr. 38spl. flat nose jsp for practice and carry . I know it's probably not the best defence load but I think its good enough . I've heard that you can get 110gr 357. jhp . Would this be a better option.